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Showing posts with label Inspirational. Show all posts
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Tuesday, September 5, 2017




Stress is one thing that people would not choose to have if given a chance There are many reasons that can give you stress. But if you look into it, even stress has its advantages. The common causes of stress could be job, studies, health issue, relationships and the list could go on.  These said factors are occurring daily right? It means that you cannot escape stress. If you cannot escape it, then why not stay positive and focus on the advantages of stress.

Stress can make you appreciate rest 

If we are to choose between to stress or to relaxation, we will most likely choose to be relaxed. But if you just lie on your bed for a whole day, would you still be able to sleep after that? You may probably want to do something else besides resting. Something that can make you tired and want to rest again. You are now wanting to be stressed for you to rest. You see now, if you are stressed, you can appreciate the times you rest even more.

Stress helps you remember things better 

You may now be thinking something like "How can I be able to remember better if I am stressed?" or something along that line. Before we get any further, let's try some game. Let's say last week, on a Thursday night, you got hit by a truck while crossing the street which you are taking everyday on your way to home. You were hospitalized for a month. Now after ten years(assuming you did not get an amnesia), would you still remember that Thursday night you got hit? Probably yes, right? Now, would you remember what happened the day before the accident? How about the day before that? Stress helps the brain create a memory or sensation of the things that brought stress upon ourselves. I am not referring to your ability to remember things during the stress but your ability to remember the things that happened while you were stressed.

Stress prepares you for harder problems 

Problems will become tougher as we go on in our lives. Remember the first time you tried Mathematics? You were just learning how to count from one to ten and now, you are trying to solve numbers with letters and still need a scientific calculator. It was a good thing that you needed to be stressed first from little things before getting stressed straight with enormous things, right? You won't escape stress all of the time. So just accept your stress because that is a preparation for a bigger stress.

Stress helps you realize you are learning 

They say that experience is the best teacher. It is when you experience things that makes you understand or learn it much better. In those first time experiences, that is where you are most likely to commit a mistake. When things are going wrong, you get stressed. I'm not saying that you should always make a mistake. It's always better if you can do it right at the first time but if you really can't, that is where you need the experience. We discussed earlier that the if something brought you stress, you will more likely to remember it.

There you have it, one of the most seldom advantages list - The Advantages of Stress. Next time you feel like you are having a hard time being stressed, just remember these things we talked about. You will experience stress, so rather than being more stressed about stress, might as well get the most out of it.


People will lie for various reasons. It may be by different situations or intentions, a person always has a tendency to lie. Here are 6 reasons why people lie.

They want to believe in it

One of the reason why people will lie is because they reject the truth and wanted another reality that is more fitting for them. People always had thought what they believe is right. So when the things that they believe in seems to be wrong, they have the urge to prove it is right. The easiest solution to make a point about something that is not true, of course, lying.

They are used to doing it

People will always have the tendency to lie. Whether they think about it thoroughly or just by impulse. Lying is just like any other skills, if you do it repetitively, you get used to it. When a person get used to lying, that person will be able to do it impulsively. When a situation that doesn't favor him and is coming, that person is most likely to lie.

To protect other people

Although the intentions are good but still, lying is lying. People lie not just for themselves but also for other people. May it be to protect someone from an unfavorable situation that may come to them or to not hurt other people from the truth that they should be hearing from you.

To avoid consequence

If a person can lie for other people then that person can surely lie for himself. The most common reason of lying is to evade a consequence. Most people will not take blame or be accountable to a wrong doing whether he caused it or not. A person will try to avoid the consequence by avoiding the truth.

To retain control

People wanted things to happen their way. If these things go out of way, you lose control. In order to avoid that from happening, people often alter the truth so they won't have to deal with certain problems that may occur.

Lie that leads to another lie

Most of the biggest lies are came from a simple lie you decided to make. In order to preserve the lie you have made, you will create another lie, then another one and so on. Your lies will soon pile up and you will be forced to continue lying just to keep the simple lie you created from the start.
There you have it - 6 Reasons why people lie. No matter how you want to change it, reality is reality. You don't need to daydream or fantasize about something not real and try to convince it to yourself. You don't want to be the one known for lying. If you really wanted to change the things as it is, then stop lying to other and to yourself. Take action.

Sunday, September 3, 2017

People of my beloved country, I am about to rant. I am not going to criticize the government, nor will I fight the doings of the opposition. I am not going to question the ongoing war on drugs nor will I support the battle against it. This has happened in every change in our government leadership, not just now. There will be fighting on different sides which seems endless. We were watching these things as it happens that we came to a point where we ask ourselves, "Is change really coming?".

People of the my beloved country, please hear me out. This rant that I am to tell is the rant many of us try to evade. This is the rant directed to my fellow countrymen, to my fellow Filipino. To each and those who rants and just continued to rant. To those who rant to prove they believe in what is right. To those who rant to trigger others. To those who rant to ignite others with fighting. Lastly, to those who rant but never gave a solution.

People of my beloved country, please spare me some time. The change we wanted may not be the change everyone else wanted. We neglect or threw things to the ones we dislike while we support and appreciate the ones we like, we are human beings. We all know we wanted change but why are we still acting the same as before? Why do we only see the bad things? Why is it that when someone opposes us, they are the ones who is wrong? We may see that they have a point but none of those points were taken. Aren't we supposed to learn from mistakes? Why are we so willing to take the same wounds again?

People of my beloved country, may this offend you in the process. May you be willing to see this rant of mine for you to be triggered deeply. For many years now we are changing the leadership within the government with great hope for change. We have seen changes among many things over and over again. The rules, the process and the system has been constantly changing. These were evident, except for us, the Filipino people. Don't you think this time, we are the ones who has to change? Would our country be much better if we tried to stop talking and actually listen? Would it be possible for us to stop ranting and actually think and give proper solutions? To stop saying who's right or wrong but cooperate with one another? This will be really hard, but is it really that impossible?

People of my beloved country, I do not wish you harm. I hope and pray that our leaders may be given wisdom as they may guide us to a better country. We should not stop striving for something better. We, the Filipino people were already left by the changes we made ourselves. We should be the ones who are more aware of this. We see this everyday and still ask why isn't anything changing.

People of my beloved country, I too, want change.